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8. "Was I Lying To Myself?"

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In the final episode of this four-part series on love and attachment with Jane (@_nightbirde) and Virginia, we dive deeper into Jane's marriage. She explains how she unconsciously chose a partner who mimicked the dynamic that she grew up with as a child. How his "controller" attachment style led her to remain "the pleaser", always walking on eggshells to manage her partner's reactions and emotions. Jane explained how Virginia helped her look inward to identify the gaps in her own introspection.

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